fix: verify and retry stapling so --notarize can't falsely report success

[yepzdk-bot]

Summary

update/create with --notarize could report success even when the notary ticket wasn't actually stapled: stapling ran once with its output suppressed (quiet: true) and no verification, so stapler staple exiting 0 without attaching a ticket left apps "notarized" but unstapled while the CLI happily reported success.

This reworks AppBuilder.notarizeAndStaple to prevent that silent failure:

• Retry with backoff — a freshly-accepted ticket can lag behind acceptance on Apple's CDN, so stapling now retries up to stapleAttempts times, waiting a growing stapleBackoff between tries.
• Validate before success — after stapler staple exits 0, the CLI runs xcrun stapler validate and only reports success if the ticket is genuinely attached.
• Surface the real output — stapling now runs via runCapturingAll (not quiet: true), so the stapler's own output is shown rather than suppressed.
• Actionable failure — on exhaustion it throws with a message stating the app is notarized but not stapled (still passes Gatekeeper online, not offline) and gives the manual xcrun stapler staple "<app>" recovery command.

Acceptance criteria

• Attempts to staple multiple times with a delay between attempts.
• Runs xcrun stapler validate to confirm the ticket before reporting success.
• Displays the actual stapler output on failure instead of suppressing it.
• Failed stapling errors state the app is notarized but not stapled, with the manual command.

Testing

Pure logic (stapleBackoff, notStapledMessage, stapleAttempts) is unit-tested in StaplingTests.swift, following the repo's pure-vs-side-effect split. The sleep/process orchestration is verified by hand (macOS-only; no Swift toolchain on the CI-less Linux dev host used here).

Closes #WEBWRAP-004

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