Turn on device memory planing as default

[Gasoonjia]

Stack from ghstack (oldest at bottom):

• [ET Device Support] CUDA-native Qwen 3.5 MoE inference with device tensor pipeline #18788
• -> Turn on device memory planing as default #20214
• [ET Device Support] Add device tensor helper functions to TensorPtr API #19828
• [ET Device Support] make device support config method-based #19582
• [ET Device Support] Add ExecutorchBackendConfig flags for skipping H2D/D2H copies #18760
• [ET Device Support] PropagateDevicePass inserts H2D/D2H copy ops at delegate boundaries #18730
• [ET Device Support] Add device tensor helper functions to TensorPtr API #18761

This diff turn on the on-device memory planing as default, so that every delegate which enables on device memory planing will be use that./

Also update cuda backend to remove H2D/D2H copies and extra caches

Differential Revision: D107597774

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