[To dev/1.3][Pipe] Back off TsFile parser admission retries (#18262)

[Caideyipi]

Description

Backport 4300930 (#18262) to dev/1.3.

• Wake waiting TsFile parsers immediately when parser memory is released.
• Add bounded exponential backoff with jitter for parser-memory admission retries.
• Preserve the parsing timeout and add coverage for the backoff helpers and wake-up path.
• Adapt the change to the dev/1.3 pattern/device-ID APIs and inline-message style.

Tests

• mvn spotless:apply -pl iotdb-core/datanode,iotdb-core/node-commons
• mvn -o -nsu test -pl iotdb-core/datanode -Dtest=PipeTsFileInsertionEventAdmissionTest
• 2 tests passed, 0 failures/errors.

This PR has:

• been self-reviewed.
• added unit tests to cover new code paths.

Key changed/added classes

• PipeTsFileInsertionEvent
• PipeMemoryManager
• PipeTsFileInsertionEventAdmissionTest
• CommonConfig