[To dev/1.3] Fix flaky stamped lock test

[Caideyipi]

Summary

• Backport Fix flaky StampedWriterPreferredLock test #17832 to dev/1.3.
• Cherry-picked commit 2fd70b9.

Tests

• Attempted: mvn -pl iotdb-core/datanode -am -Dcheckstyle.skip=true -Dspotless.check.skip=true -DskipITs -Dtest=StampedWriterPreferredLockTest -DfailIfNoTests=false -Dsurefire.failIfNoSpecifiedTests=false clean test
• Result: failed before reaching the target test because the local JVM ran out of native memory while compiling iotdb-thrift-commons.