oleo wheel landing gears can clip into another ship and push it upwards

[kijetesantakalu912345]

landing gears arranged like this moving at a high enough RPM can clip into the block below them.

that's usually just a minor annoyance at worst because it'll only take a few seconds for the wheels to push themselves out of the ground they're clipped into.
but if the block being clipped into happens to be on another ship, the wheels will push the other ship upwards quite a lot while trying to get themselves unstuck.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nejC6a-6EQ

[mrshine4k]

This problem is twofold I'm pretty sure;

1. dampening is cooked as per the released on mod pages, refer to Dampening decoupled, then not re-coupled in TWPlus port #65 (just now)
2. suspension force at the moment dont propagate to recipient ship, i.e. breaking Newton's 3rd law, equal and opposite force.

so the suspension rebound hard, undampened, and the force isnt shared so the force value is really high on the ship that the wheel is on.